Archive for February, 2009

A Mounting Lethargy

As of late, I seem to be having a bit of lethargy toward attending my weekly Toastmasters meetings. For months, I sincerely enjoyed and relished attending them, but now it’s starting to feel like a chore. I believe this is something that needs exploring.

Respecting Potential

I’ve been giving some thought this past week to my last Toastmasters meeting. It seems rather unfair that I have the ability to run late into a meeting, spew out a speech that has not even been rehearsed, and come up with a top placed speech. Now, I’m not necessarily suggesting that this is unfair to the other contestants, but rather I am being unfair to myself and not respecting my own potential to actually put the work into it and really shine. Next week, our club meeting will consist of a speech-a-thon. Rather than waltzing in and delivering a speech for the sole purpose of fulfilling my speech #10 for my CC award, I am going to try with the utmost sincerity to inspire my audience and deliver a finished “product” as opposed to a string of creative and off-the-cuff words that are not as smooth as they could be.

Persuade with Power

Today I am presenting my 9th Toastmasters speech – Persuade with Power. Selecting a topic which does not include religion and politics was pretty challenging – after all, don’t most people have rather defined view points in these areas that they are only too interested in telling other people… and hoping to change their viewpoint? Alas, one of the unspoken(?) rules of membership is to avoid preaching on what can be construed as sensitive subject matter. Religion is the one that really grinds my gears! I would love to share my opinions and try to “persuade” people to my point of view, but I also recognize that there is a time and a place for everything, and the respect of neutral ground is important. Therefore, my speech selection is based on one of my other favourite topics to rant about – diet and nutrition. In retrospect, I’m not entirely sure that I persuaded anyone, but I did get a smile or two :)

Creativity Within Context

I have always imagined myself to be likeable, but likeable doesn’t equal eloquence. Eloquence, combined with confidence, is an engaging and powerful combination that lets a person fit in anywhere (should they desire) and engage in meaningful (or trivial) banter with anyone, anywhere. Whenever I fly, I usually end up returning with one or more business card – however, people are usually relaxed when they travel and therefore more likely to converse with ease, should they desire. Job interviews are often another matter altogether. Over the past few months, I’ve noticed a significant change in the ways in which I approach and deal with potential business opportunities and networking opportunities. Rather than nervously wait for yet-another-question destined to test my knowledge or skill, I interview the interviewer. Rather than approaching a situation, with fervent hope that they will want me, I entertain the notion if I, in fact, want them. The tables therefore become turned, therefore bringing a surge of confidence, and with it, eloquent and creative approaches to communicating one’s thoughts. Granted, there is indeed such a thing as being too creative – yet another lesson I’ve had to learn on occasion. The trick seems to be “creativity within context” – fantastic if it fits, but detrimental if it leaves a person scratching their heads. An example of a recently learned lesson: Most Americans have not heard of the Caramilk chocolate bar. Therefore, a joke made with reference to “discovering the Caramilk secret” is not intelligent creativity, but actually a liability. Well-placed humour can be a real asset, but a person needs to know their audience! Life is a process defined by lessons, and Toastmasters has taught me the lesson of fearless and eloquent speech.