I’ve been giving some thought this past week to my last Toastmasters meeting. It seems rather unfair that I have the ability to run late into a meeting, spew out a speech that has not even been rehearsed, and come up with a top placed speech. Now, I’m not necessarily suggesting that this is unfair to the other contestants, but rather I am being unfair to myself and not respecting my own potential to actually put the work into it and really shine. Next week, our club meeting will consist of a speech-a-thon. Rather than waltzing in and delivering a speech for the sole purpose of fulfilling my speech #10 for my CC award, I am going to try with the utmost sincerity to inspire my audience and deliver a finished “product” as opposed to a string of creative and off-the-cuff words that are not as smooth as they could be.
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Persuade with Power
Author: rebeccaFeb 9
Today I am presenting my 9th Toastmasters speech – Persuade with Power. Selecting a topic which does not include religion and politics was pretty challenging – after all, don’t most people have rather defined view points in these areas that they are only too interested in telling other people… and hoping to change their viewpoint? Alas, one of the unspoken(?) rules of membership is to avoid preaching on what can be construed as sensitive subject matter. Religion is the one that really grinds my gears! I would love to share my opinions and try to “persuade” people to my point of view, but I also recognize that there is a time and a place for everything, and the respect of neutral ground is important. Therefore, my speech selection is based on one of my other favourite topics to rant about – diet and nutrition. In retrospect, I’m not entirely sure that I persuaded anyone, but I did get a smile or two
Getting Comfortable with Visual Aids
Author: rebeccaJan 26
I’m not comfortable using visual aids. Today, I will be presenting my speech that has this as a requirement. I’ve never been a paper chart or power point presentation type of person; these do not strike me as interesting visual stimulus. My preferred visual aids need to be something a bit more organic – something natural, fluid, and non-technical. To be comfortable with visual aids, I believe that I need to explore the use of props, rather than standard presentation materials.
Killing 2 Birds with 2 Proverbial Stones
Author: rebeccaJan 19
One of my goals for this year, nay even the next several months, is to finish off the remainder of my 10 speeches to receive my CC (Competent Communicator) designation. Now, I will have the opportunity to complete 2 additional speeches during the month of February, leaving me with one final speech before receiving my advanced manual. I am somewhat stumped for topics. I do extremely well with on-the-spot pressure, but now I am finding a bit of resistance to thinking of topics so far in advance.
New Years, New Dreams, New Goals
Author: rebeccaJan 5
I don’t believe in New Years resolutions; I believe in goals and dreams. The turning of the year is the time when most people make their resolutions, and as such, it is a wonderful time for me to evaluate my goals.
2008 was fantastic. I loved and lost, and loved again. I traveled and studied, I worked hard and played harder. I toured the Niagara Ice Wine Festival, fell in love with San Diego, drank Tequila in Tijuana, ate sushi in Bermuda, took in some witchy history in Salem, spent a good chunk of the Winter and Spring in British Columbia (Vancouver, Kelowna, Whistler…), and spent the Summer flying around Ontario (Sault Ste. Marie, Thunder Bay, Timmins) and made Ottawa my temporary home for 2 months – when I wasn’t cottaging, that is. I reconnected with some amazing people from my past, and made new connections that I plan to take into my future.
I became more of an adult. Took out an RRSP loan, formulated an appropriate savings plan, acquired a fantastic business partner + benefits page, and making plans to move forward with my present place of employment and my present love relationship. I cut off the safety blanket known as my hair, and am loving the care, freedom, and worry-free aspect of it all now. My passion for my love ebbs and flows, but now it seems to be in a definite pattern of free flowing goodness. I am blessed and loved.
Goals for 2009
- Be continually conscious of my health and diet
- Learn some form of martial art – Aikido, Tai Chi, Qi Gong…
- Return to Vancouver, Halifax, Orange Country, Mexico and possibly visit Asia
- Finish my yoga teacher training
- Attain my Zend Certified Engineer designation
- Learn Flex
- Collaborate with my fantastic partner on some projects
- Finish my 10 speeches to receive my CC (Competent Communicator) award at Toastmasters
- Learn some additional modalities in energy healing
- Visit more spiritually charged destinations
2008 goals that didn’t make it
- Visit San Francisco
- Apply to grad school
The following have been on my list for the past 2 years… maybe this year I will actually see them to fruition?
- Get my Registered Practitioner status with the Canadian Reiki Association and complete my teacher class outlines
- Write my exam with the Certified Personal Trainers Network
- Master of Herbology with Dominion Herbal College
- Finish my course work with the University of Metaphysics and Pathways of Light
I believe in being realistic, although I am certainly ambitiously realistic. Happy 2009… and may the new year bless you with health, wealth, and wisdom!
Holiday Cheer
Author: rebeccaDec 29
This holiday season was different than seasons past. It was fabulously different – challenging, inspirational, filled with love and cheer, thought-provoking. For the first holiday season of my life, I didn’t eat turkey and only missed it in the slightest. Granted, I certainly gorged on many of my (non-meat) favourites (although it resulted in something of a stomach ache for my relatively healthy state of being). I took a bit of a break from the tech world, turned off my brain, and enjoyed some earthy and enlightening activities. Now, I’m ready to get back into the swing of things – to eat an apple, write some code, and do a bit more yoga. I’ve had enough eggnog to last me until the next holiday season, and I’m looking forward to consuming a large amount of vegetables once again. Raw food, php, yoga, and inspiring books – this is the stuff that the next week of blissful holidays will contain!
Conquering Fear
Author: rebeccaNov 17
When it comes to successful public speaking, fear needs to be abolished. Trepidation, absolutely. Nerves, sure. But fear? What’s the worst that can happen? Sure, you could stutter or stumble over your words, or you could draw a complete blank, but in the general scheme of tragedy, it pales in comparison to a comet hurling itself at the earth or the DOW taking a horrific dive. When I am in front of a room full of people, I feel omnipotent. I also recognize the fact that I may blunder and I simply acknowledge the thought and release it. I used to be a person who memorized – writing and rehearsing, quite machine-like. I found this to induce pressure and stress. Now, I am working to master the art of speaking off the cuff. There is always another thought to be expressed, another word to exit my lips. There is no pressure to remember, but rather to recollection and be creative. It was incredibly flattering to hear the comments from my fellow club members after (yet another) off the cuff speech – that I would be a fantastic teacher; that I would have made history fun (I gave a speech on recollecting the past). I wonder what my life would have been like if I would have made teaching my profession…after all, this is one (of many) suggested professions for an ENFP.


