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		<title>Eliminating Fear Through Body Awareness</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Over the weekend, while ensconced in a cottage in Quebec sans Internet, I spent some time marinating over concepts in The Relaxation &#038; Stress Reduction Workbook, considering how they may apply to the fear (and elimination thereof) of public speaking. The concept of Body Inventory can easily be applied to the preparation for a speech [...]]]></description>
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<p>Over the weekend, while ensconced in a cottage in Quebec sans Internet, I spent some time marinating over concepts in <em>The Relaxation &#038; Stress Reduction Workbook</em>, considering how they may apply to the fear (and elimination thereof) of public speaking.</p>
<p>The concept of Body Inventory can easily be applied to the preparation for a speech or presentation.</p>
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<li>Letting Go</li>
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<p><strong>Internal Vs. External Awareness</strong></p>
<p>External awareness includes all stimulation from the outside world to the five senses. Internal awareness refers to physical sensation inside the body. Most of the tension within the body is not felt because tension is usually directed toward the outside world. Before speaking, I quickly qualify my reaction to the space – scent, white noise, temperature, etc. Following this, I perform a brief inventory of my physical space – noting any tension or erroneous thoughts or emotions.</p>
<p><strong>Body Scanning</strong></p>
<p>Body Scanning involves a toe to head analysis of the body, seeking out areas of discomfort. When a tense area is discovered, it is to be exaggerated to raise awareness of it, acknowledged, and released. In my experience, this allows me to present with fluidity and natural gesture/movement, having exorcised any demons of rigidity.</p>
<p><strong>Letting Go</strong></p>
<p>Comfort and breath allow the body to let go. Before speaking, plant both feet firmly on the floor and become aware of your breathing. I find that 5-10 minutes of diaphragmatic (deep belly breathing) energizes and centres me. Become aware of any residual tension and breathe into it, then consciously release it. This instills a state of mindfulness, and provides the ability to focus solely on the task at hand.</p>
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		<title>Conquering Fear</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[When it comes to successful public speaking, fear needs to be abolished. Trepidation, absolutely. Nerves, sure. But fear? What’s the worst that can happen? Sure, you could stutter or stumble over your words, or you could draw a complete blank, but in the general scheme of tragedy, it pales in comparison to a comet hurling [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When it comes to successful public speaking, fear needs to be abolished. Trepidation, absolutely. Nerves, sure. But fear? What’s the worst that can happen? Sure, you could stutter or stumble over your words, or you could draw a complete blank, but in the general scheme of tragedy, it pales in comparison to a comet hurling itself at the earth or the DOW taking a horrific dive. When I am in front of a room full of people, I feel omnipotent. I also recognize the fact that I may blunder and I simply acknowledge the thought and release it. I used to be a person who memorized – writing and rehearsing, quite machine-like. I found this to induce pressure and stress. Now, I am working to master the art of speaking off the cuff. There is always another thought to be expressed, another word to exit my lips. There is no pressure to remember, but rather to recollection and be creative. It was incredibly flattering to hear the comments from my fellow club members after (yet another) off the cuff speech &#8211; that I would be a fantastic teacher; that I would have made history fun (I gave a speech on recollecting the past). I wonder what my life would have been like if I would have made teaching my profession&#8230;after all, this is one (of many) suggested professions for an <a target="_blank" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/ENFP">ENFP</a>.</p>
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